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BECOME

A 5-Month Journey of Personal Reinvention & Identity Renewal

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BECOME is more than a programme.
It is a returning. A rebuilding. A remembering. A rising.
And it is the beginning of your next chapter.

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About the Programme

BECOME is a global, fully online life coaching experience designed to help you gain clarity, heal deeply, strengthen your courage, grow into your next version, and define the legacy you want to leave.

Rooted in the themes and reflections from What Matters to Me Now, this programme guides you step-by-step through the work of self-awareness, emotional growth, alignment, transformation, and purpose.

This is not a quick fix. It is a guided journey — structured, intentional, and life-shaping.

By the end of the programme, you will have created your own personalised version of What Matters to Me Now: your blueprint, your insights, your next chapter — and a written BECOME Story, a personal narrative that captures your transformation, with the option to publish your story the same way I published The Gift.

How it all began

The Gift by Dr. Anderson Uvie-EmegboThe Gift is my story — raw, honest, and deeply personal. It is the memoir I was once afraid to tell: a story of survival, identity, shame, healing, and becoming. Writing it required me to confront my past, honour my wounds, and name what I had carried in silence for decades.

But once the story was told, a new question emerged: What did I learn? What now matters most?

That question led to What Matters to Me Now — a book of 50 reflections, organized into five life-shaping themes: Identity, Healing, Courage, Becoming, and Legacy. Each reflection distills the lessons, insights, and truths I've discovered through my own journey and through coaching 500+ senior leaders across 80+ countries.

What Matters to Me Now by Dr. Anderson Uvie-EmegboWhat Matters to Me Now became more than a book. It became a map — a guide for others navigating their own crossroads, transitions, and transformations.

And then came the next question: What if people didn't just read the reflections — but worked through them? What if they could create their own version of this book, their own story, their own becoming?

That's how BECOME was born.

BECOME is the structured, guided experience that takes the themes from What Matters to Me Now and turns them into a 5-month journey of deep personal work. It's where reflection becomes action. Where insight becomes transformation. Where your story — not mine — takes center stage.

By the end of this programme, you won't just have read about identity, healing, courage, becoming, and legacy. You will have lived it. And you will have written your own BECOME Story — your testimony, your truth, your next chapter.

Get the Books

Both books are available for purchase individually or as a combo set.

How the Programme Works

A structured 5-month journey of deep personal transformation

01

One Theme per Month

Over 5 months, you will work through each of the book's five themes: Identity, Healing, Courage, Becoming, and Legacy.

02

Ten Reflections per Theme

Each theme contains 10 reflections. At the start of the month, you review all ten.

03

Choose One Reflection

You select the reflection that meets you where you are right now — the one calling for attention, clarity, or healing.

04

Monthly Workbook

Complete guided exercises, prompts, and practices designed for depth, honesty, and transformation.

05

Your Dedicated Coach

Each participant is assigned an experienced coach who will walk with you throughout the entire 5-month journey.

06

Monthly Cohort Sessions

1 Group Kickoff (1st week) and 1 Deep-Dive Group Debrief (last week) — 3 hours total per month.

07

Weekly Check-Ins

One-on-one check-ins with your coach (5–10 minutes per week) for personalized support and accountability.

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Your BECOME Story

By month five, you will have created your own lived, personalised BECOME Blueprint — and your written BECOME Story.

The 5 Themes of BECOME

Five months. Five themes. Fifty reflections. One transformative journey.

MONTH 1 — IDENTITY

Who am I becoming, and what shaped me?

Significance — Your Voice Still Matters
Liberation — You Are Not Your Childhood
Authenticity — Your Story Is Sacred
Connection — Not All Families Hurt
Purpose — Your Identity Isn't a Mistake
Evolution — Who You Were Isn't Who You Have to Be
Fulfilment — You Are the Answer to Someone's Prayer
Embodiment — Let Your Life Speak
Uniqueness — The World Needs What Only You Carry
Authorship — You Get to Define the Rest of the Story
MONTH 2 — HEALING

What must be released, forgiven, or honoured?

Release — Forgiveness Is for You
Expression — Let the Silence Break
Generosity — Kindness Is Never Wasted
Perseverance — Healing Is Messy—and Worth It
Resilience — Grief Doesn't Cancel Growth
Compassion — Forgive Yourself First
Reconciliation — Make Peace with Your Past
Insight — There's Wisdom in the Wound
Detachment — Unlearning Is Part of Healing
Acknowledgement — What You've Survived Deserves to Be Honoured
MONTH 3 — COURAGE

Where do I need to be braver with myself and my life?

Boundaries — It's Okay to Leave
Affirmation — One Yes Can Change Everything
Determination — Fear Doesn't Get the Final Say
Vulnerability — Stay Soft, Even If You've Been Hardened
Imperfection — You Don't Need to Be Whole to Help
Persistence — Your Courage Counts—Even Quietly
Tenacity — Grit Comes from the Grind
Optimism — Hope Isn't Naive. It's Necessary
Transformation — Even Betrayal Can Birth Breakthroughs
Redirection — Rejection Can Be Redirection
MONTH 4 — BECOMING

What am I growing into, and what will it take?

Fortitude — Resilience Is Learnt, Not Inherited
Self-Governance — Leadership Begins with Self
Timeliness — You're Not Too Late
Restoration — Rest Is Revolutionary
Expansion — You Were Not Meant to Shrink
Transparency — Don't Let Shame Silence You
Meaning — Purpose Can Be Found in Pain
Self-Preservation — You Are Worth Protecting
Receptivity — Grace Will Meet You Where You Are
Transition — Not Every Ending Is a Failure
MONTH 5 — LEGACY

What will remain because I lived?

Mindfulness — Legacy Is Built in the Ordinary
Transcendence — Be the Ancestor You Needed
Patience — Impact Is Not Always Immediate
Resonance — Legacy Is Who Remembers You and Why
Ownership — Tell Your Story Before Others Tell It
Congruence — Legacy Is Rooted in Integrity
Illumination — Teach What You've Survived
Generativity — Legacy Is What You Give Away
Reverence — Honour Your Elders While You Can
Testimony — Your Life Is the Curriculum

What You Experience Inside the Programme

This programme gently challenges you to grow — and supports you as you do.

✓ Deep reflection
✓ Guided self-discovery
✓ Emotional clarity
✓ Inner healing
✓ Strengthened courage
✓ Identity grounded in truth
✓ Personal leadership
✓ Purpose, meaning, and direction
✓ A dedicated experienced coach
✓ A supportive global community
✓ Monthly live cohort sessions
✓ Weekly one-on-one check-ins
✓ A complete BECOME Blueprint
✓ A written BECOME Story (with publishing option)

Who This Programme Is For

BECOME is designed for anyone navigating transition, seeking clarity, or ready to grow intentionally into their next chapter.

This programme is ideal for those who:

✓ Are at a crossroads or sensing an internal shift
✓ Feel they are outgrowing old stories and patterns
✓ Want clarity over confusion
✓ Are healing from disappointment, loss, or pain
✓ Need stronger boundaries and courage to move forward
✓ Are stepping into a new season — personally or professionally
✓ Desire meaning, alignment, and purpose
✓ Want a guided, structured journey — not noise
✓ Are ready to do deep, honest work

Age range: 20s upwards

Outcome: Clarity. Healing. Courage. Self-ownership. Voice.

This Programme May Be Right For:

  • Young adults finding direction after university, career changes, or life transitions
  • Emerging leaders stepping into greater responsibility
  • Entrepreneurs and founders looking to scale and transform
  • Mid-career professionals recalibrating purpose
  • Team members and staff you want to invest in deeply
  • Mentees ready for personal transformation
  • Friends or family navigating grief, change, or reinvention

Gift the Journey

Many people join BECOME for themselves. Others choose to gift the programme to someone they believe deserves the chance to rise.

Because BECOME is fully online, participants can join from any country in the world.

How to Join Cohort 1

Nomination-Based • Subsidized Fee

The inaugural cohort of BECOME is a gift. Access to Cohort 1 is through nomination slots included with book combo purchases made during our book launches in Nigeria (December 6, 2024), the UK (January 3, 2026), and the Global Online Launch.

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Purchase Book Combo + Nomination Slot

Each book combo purchase includes a full set of both books (The Gift + What Matters to Me Now) and one nomination slot into the BECOME Programme. You may nominate yourself or someone else.

Nigeria

₦100,000 per combo

₦200,000 = 2 sets + 2 slots
₦500,000 = 5 sets + 5 slots

UK

£100 in-person

£105 delivered UK-wide

Global/International

$115 per combo

To request payment details and book delivery:

Email: me@andyemegbo.com

Please include your location (Nigeria/UK/International) and number of book combos you wish to purchase.

02

Submit Your Nominee Details

After making your payment, submit the details of who you are nominating (yourself or others).

Submit Nominee Details

Nominating 5 or more people? Organizations can use our bulk submission option with an Excel template.

03

Nominee Completes Application

Once we receive your nominee details, each nominee will receive an email invitation to complete their application form.

Nominee Application Form
04

Confirmation & Programme Start

  • Participants will be confirmed for Cohort 1
  • Each participant will be assigned a dedicated coach
  • Programme materials and schedule will be shared
  • Programme begins: Monday, 2nd February 2026

Cohort 2 & Beyond

Starting August 2026 • Programme Fee: £250 / $300

Cohort 2 will open for direct registration in February 2026. Details and registration will be announced in early 2026.

With warmth and purpose,

Coach Anderson